Team & Leader Performance via Harmonized Relationship
Professional coaching is known as a process that achieves #results. It provides #means, which support the improvement of #performance, especially in a relational space of security, with the neutral look and the open questioning of the coach.
What about the meaning you want to give to your action?
What is your particular signature as a team manager?
This article explores the links between different models of human decoding, and offers an innovative vision of the coaching relationship.
The evolution of the demand for coaching is connected to the development of the person, especially in connection with the development of the adult. Thus, coaching acts as an upgrade of the software for exploiting the individual’s way of thinking and decision-making and taking action, which makes it possible to have a vision to manage increasingly vast areas of complexity.
Sometimes we are “triggered” by situations. This leads to an instant emotional reactivity, the intensity of which may seem surprising or inappropriate, with hindsight.
A first approach to developing mental agility in complex situations is presented in Values and Red Buttons. Here is a deepening, with more nuance.
Continue reading “Inference scale to be more agile”How do you know what makes a relationship work, that it is constructive, fruitful, fruitful, in the long term?
John M Gottman’s “Love Lab” has revealed its secrets, after hosting volunteer couples for 16 years. Couples are immersed in this somewhat special laboratory, where they are invited for a weekend. Researchers observe them through a glass without complexion and couples are monitored on some physiological parameters (heartbeat, blood pressure …).
The conclusions of this study are quite transposable into other types of relationships, such as friendship relationships, parenthood, or professional relationships.
When we talk about soft skills, the skills acquired in one context are transferable to others (personal, intimate, professional life).Only the issues and durations in which relationships take place differ.
Seduction, a well-oiled mechanic?
At the beginning of sexual life, we know each other badly and we are dependent on social expectations or we are rebellious, which is just the opposite, that is to say that we are not really freely ourselves, but just guided by extrinsic motivations. In addition, we are ticking off a kind of unconscious checklist, but valued socially: studying, having a good job, finding a partner, all this for… reproduce.
Sorry for the immediate and merciless destruction of the glamorous side of dating 😉 !!!
To compensate, here is this photo that I found particularly attractive…
